Something that happened just the other day: One of my "guilty pleasures" (lol) is 90 Day Fiance. Well I commented on a 90dayFiance subreddit post, (the post was about one of the fiances who started out male but has since gone trans, but who has not yet had genitalia-surgery, going by the name "Alliyah'). My comment was NOT disparaging of 'Alliyah' and I even closed the comment saying that I hope Alliyah ends up happy. But the first sentence of my comment said "Alliyah is not keeping it real with himself". (I was referring to the fact that the relationship was a mis-match, and they should go their separate ways). Ten minutes after posting that comment, a mod of the sub was SO triggered with knickers in a KNOT, said mod chewed me out for violating their 'no homophobia' rules, and scolded me (was PISSED!) for not writing 'herself'. The reason I said 'himself', is because I'm into accuracy of facts. And since I know that 'Alliyah' is still technically biologically male, I wrote 'himself' (as opposed to 'herself'). I think I have the right to make that choice in writing my comment. It's not slander, it's not mean-spirited, it's not inaccurate. But that Nazi stasi censorship hall monitor mod was triggered and rageful as f-ck. So triggered and fanatical to take offense and police a nothingburger in the name of protecting and treating with respect, yet at the same time vile, rude, nasty and belligerent to the bone. The irony is not lost on me. (sheesh). (I deleted the comment after that dressing down, because I didn't want any further 'drama' / hostility-energy, unwarranted. I think I was the only one 'traumatized' in that space! LMAO..........!?!?)
Something that happened just the other day: One of my "guilty pleasures" (lol) is 90 Day Fiance. Well I commented on a 90dayFiance subreddit post, (the post was about one of the fiances who started out male but has since gone trans, but who has not yet had genitalia-surgery, going by the name "Alliyah'). My comment was NOT disparaging of 'Alliyah' and I even closed the comment saying that I hope Alliyah ends up happy. But the first sentence of my comment said "Alliyah is not keeping it real with himself". (I was referring to the fact that the relationship was a mis-match, and they should go their separate ways). Ten minutes after posting that comment, a mod of the sub was SO triggered with knickers in a KNOT, said mod chewed me out for violating their 'no homophobia' rules, and scolded me (was PISSED!) for not writing 'herself'. The reason I said 'himself', is because I'm into accuracy of facts. And since I know that 'Alliyah' is still technically biologically male, I wrote 'himself' (as opposed to 'herself'). I think I have the right to make that choice in writing my comment. It's not slander, it's not mean-spirited, it's not inaccurate. But that Nazi stasi censorship hall monitor mod was triggered and rageful as f-ck. So triggered and fanatical to take offense and police a nothingburger in the name of protecting and treating with respect, yet at the same time vile, rude, nasty and belligerent to the bone. The irony is not lost on me. (sheesh). (I deleted the comment after that dressing down, because I didn't want any further 'drama' / hostility-energy, unwarranted. I think I was the only one 'traumatized' in that space! LMAO..........!?!?)